Fox 5 found that romance is almost completely alive and well in Harlem. The notion of one a soul mate, your better half, the one and only is thriving. Maybe have Cinderella or rather reality television to thank for this notion.
Sadly, new research shows if you believe your partner is your soul mate your expectations may be to high when times get tough.
Dr. Jeff Gardere, a psychologist, says couples who recalled a fight after thinking of the other as their soul mate were unhappier then those who did not. He says people who see a relationship as a journey know they have to work on it every single day. There are no magical answers, he says.